Not my loser

Lucky is a very sweet gal. She is also my cousin. We used to be very tight. Back then when we were all innocent and naïve, we promised each other we would not turn out like our parents who cant stand each other. We would always be close. But her sister and I can’t stand each other, so she is forced to take sides and she chose her sister. Anyway, this is Lucky’s story.

What lucky saw in this loser I will never know. The guy is short, ugly, has bowlegs and is plain local. But heck, who can tell wit matters of the heart? Turns out, she is not the only one that fell for this one. There is a whole trail of gals on loser’s case and in his bed apparently. So despite cheating on her 3 times, she always took him back. It is when she caught him cheating the fourth time that she finally got to her senses and dumped ugly loser.

But that was not all. Last weekend she went over to pick the rest of her stuff from his place and found him at it, which would have been okay, had the guy not been pestering her to take him back again (as if). Okay now the juicy bit. She caught him in bed with another GUY!!!!

27 loungers burdening me:

candybox said...

FIRST!!!!

candybox said...

Please tell me this is a work of fiction? Lord have mercy.
I need to scrap my jaw off the floor. Poor girl.
Now how is she supposed to get over that one, anyway i hope she's ok.

Xhale said...

EWOOOOOOOOOOOO! It's a lie! say it's a lie....nasty nasty man. She should have whooped he's #$@. I mean goodness, only Lord knows how long he has been pumpin a man...or a man pumping him. SNAKE!

gayuganda said...

Errr,

let me join the chorus. Must have been embarassing!

But, that is what we are, all of us, if I may point out? I mean, the straight, and the gay, and the bi, etc.
Was it okay when he was caught with a woman, but not ok when he is caught with a guy?

Yeah, I am gay, and speaking from the other end of the spectrum. Do remember that there are guys who are bi, and those who are gay have to hide behind 'marriages', obviously.

If I cannot live with my lover in happiness (almost impossible for the gay Ugandan), then I will have to woo a girl, and marry her, and of course have my lover on the side.

Not ideal, but, gosh, what else do you want me to do?
Tell you cousin that she was lucky. Very lucky. Check out this story in Israel to find out how lucky she may have been.

gug

gayuganda said...

I am (bravely) waiting for the fallout to my comment!!!!!

gug

candybox said...

Its probably a girl thing, but if you find you man cheating with a woman the 1st thing that comes to your mind is - What does she have that i don't?

But if your man is bi and has managed to lie to you about it then what else did he lie about. The whole thing becomes a whole different issue altogether.
I'm surprised that you advocate living a lie gug.

I'm a straight woman, but you know what, i'd never get married or be with a man just for the sake. My happiness comes 1st and foremost and if he ain't delivering then his a** is history. Let me be single/celibate for the rest of my life.

Your wondering what to do? How about having compassion for the woman as a human being. How can you as a human being set out to deceive someone from the get go. I can forgive alot but someone who sets out to lie and deceive me coldheartedly...........

candybox said...

Consider yourself tagged

Tandra said...

snap!!!!

tres jolie said...

Cheating is cruel, whether with a man or a woman, but its more painful when its with a man in a woman's case. Am sure if gay ugandan was in a steady relationship with his lover and he found him cheating with a woman he would be too hurt, closet or no closet. Am sorry for your cousin. I know she will be traumatised for sometime, I know I would be.

buttercookie said...

Ehh, man...I read on thinking to myself,,,same old story, different characters...then I saw the end!!!

Which brings me to this..(chicks)
would u want yo man to leave u for another woman or for a man? Which is worse?

-Cheri

buttercookie said...

I'm back like Mike.

Thanks GUG for that link... Enlightening story.

Lucky shd count her lucky blessings.

-Cheri

antipop said...

@candybox& @exhale,i do wish i could say i made it up but i didnt.

@gug, i am all for gay rights, but it is the lies that i dont stand for. imagine the betrayal of findind out your partner has been iving a lie! how do you recover from that? can you imagine how stupid lucky must have felt being with a guy all these years and never knowing?

@buttercookie, i would be happier if a man ledt me for another man. then i would keep thinking, he has finally 'found himself'. any other way, i would die from humiliation,jealousy, envy, anger, and quite possibly suicide(as if)

gayuganda said...

Well,

see that a number followed the link. It is an enlightening story.

Tres Jolie, ever had to lie to survive? It is not a pleasant thing to do. All other ideals fly out of the window.

The closet makes us (gays) do it all the time. Not a confortable admission I must say, but, how would it be if I came and told you, gal, I am bi, but I love you?

gug

kissyfur said...

I think he rather leave me for another guy. Then I will surely know it wasnt even about me....I would even give him my blessing and wish him luck in this cruel world.

anonymous gal said...

mHEN WIT ANOTHER DUDE. GEEZ.

Phoenix said...

You must be kidding... This is insane...you threw me and blog out. come say hello

Pink-satin said...

SHIT see the way u describe the guy!LMAO....

in bed with another guy...LMFAO & ROTFl

Ms. emmotions said...

now u kidding me alright

cant believe this !!!!
so its good riddance then ...
congrats to her it is from muah

Ngare said...

Wow!! Talk about shocking!!
In bed with another guy!!!
Its bad enough that hes cheating but with another GUY!!(note: im totally against Gays or anything other than heterosexual behaviour, hate me, love me, thats the way i was brought up!!) A GUY!!!
"short, ugly,and bow legged" ROTF!!!!


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James Tubman said...

nasty sum mum ma bitch lol

well i guess you can't knock a guy for his preference

just because he likes to take it doesn't make him a bad guy

th fact that he cheated on your cousin makes him a bad guy

anonymous gal said...

updat naw

Be silent said...

hmmm i don't know why this had me lol chic should have known better....

hazel said...

ew update woman

magoola said...

This I will agree is a loser.

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

oh my! I hope she gets herself tested. This one na wa!


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SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

@ gayung: I see your point, it is not easy to be different esp. in African cultures. But here's my question. What about not getting married to a woman? Why does that have to be part of the equation? I know there is pressure on people to get married, but if you do not have to deceive someone (potential female partner) then why do it? You can be gay and unmarried, right? In fact, you'd probably seem like a player and a hot catch, diminishing any suggestion of your true sexual orientation.

Like someone else said, its the deception part that is frustrating. If your partner (female) knows that her man swings both ways, then God's blessings to both of them because they are both aware. But when one partner is in the dark, now that is where many reasonable people see a problem.

NIGERIAN CURIOSITY
IT WAS SO MUCH EASIER WHEN I ONLY HAD ONE...

candybox said...

Update girl. Where are you?

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